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<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">为什么为了寻找一个卵子让它受精，却要派出４００万个精子呢？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"><br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 因为没有一个愿意问路．</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">--</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">这是最近很热的一本书＜为什么男人爱说谎，女人爱哭？＞。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 以下是部分摘录内容，分享给大家</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">...... <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 女孩</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">A</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">与男友</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">B</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">吵了一架。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">B</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">觉得很烦，披了件外套走出房子打电话给哥儿们</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">C</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">找他去喝酒；</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">A</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">哭著打电话给姊妹淘</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">D</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">，她在电话中开始抱怨『我觉得他根本就不爱我！</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">他每次都不听我说话</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">… <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 此时在酒吧内（场景任选：球场、钓虾场</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">看你高兴）</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">B</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">喝了一口闷酒，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 微醺的他对哥儿们</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">C</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">咕哝了几句：『喂，我问你一个很严肃的问题。』</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">C</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">：『什么问题？』（喝一口酒之後把杯子放到桌）</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">B</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">：『女人到底都在想什么？』</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">C</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">：『</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">如果我知道的话，我就不会坐在这里陪你喝闷酒。』（无言对饮）</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
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<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 为什么男人总是沉默寡言、讨厌陪另一半逛街购物、面无表情、热衷球赛（记得兄弟象每一个球员的名字、打击率，却永远记不得你的生日）</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 为什他们看电视喜欢不停地切换频道？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 为什么男人喜欢看女人收集色情杂志光碟</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">VCD</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 为什么他们总是不听别人的意见（当然包括你的意见）？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 为什么女人话多得不得了喜欢逛街</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">shopping</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">、表情丰富、没事就串门子找三五好友去咖啡店（灯光美、气氛佳）坐著一聊就不知今夕是何？为什么她们讲话总是没有重点？对小婴儿和玩具熊没有抵抗？为什么女人总是迷路</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">?</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">答案是：数千年来的演化，造成了男女大脑结构的差异。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 现在，请你开始想像几万年前的人类老祖宗们的生活情境</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">在洞穴中的是母亲（猿人？）们和小孩子。她们在等待男人们猎鹿、羊、象</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">等高蛋白质的大型动物回家。女性会利用空档采集洞穴附近的水果野菜等富含纤维质、维他命等菜类；男人（父亲）们扛著今天的猎物回到洞穴里之後，因为累了一天，他们就坐在岩石上看著烤食物的火堆发呆。妈妈们则是交头接耳、讨论育儿经</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 有听过这么一个说法吧？男生擅长数理推演，女生专精语言记忆。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 为什么？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 因为数千年来，男人扮演的角色是「猎人」。猎人需要什么条件？在远处就能发现猎物且能准确地杀死猎物。当猎物逃命的时候，有够快的脚程能追上它、当猎物垂死挣扎时能与它搏斗</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">。所以男人演化出专司空间推理的大脑。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 男人的优异空间概念、几乎不会迷路的原因是：那是他的天赋。男人聚在一起时不讲话是因为，出声可能会吓跑猎物。（现在你知道为什么男人不喜欢逛街了－－女人继承了「采集蔬果野菜」的天性，喜欢东看看西逛逛，男人只想著快点把猎物杀死带回家。）男人为什么冷血、残忍、喜欢看摔角动作战争片？没办法，杀猎物如果不狠心怎么下得了手啊？（不然就没肉吃）经过一天（甚至长达两、三天）的狩猎之後，男人带著猎物回到洞窟中，看著妻儿女们满足地吃著他带回来的肉，他累坏了－－他现在只想坐在石头上看著营火发呆。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">等等。这个场景好像很熟悉对不对？听说你家也有一个下班回到家就把袜子乱丢、坐在沙发上不会动（石化）、看著电视，不停地换频道的老爸？男人休息的方式是发呆。什么都不想，发呆。对，就是这样。不管是钓鱼、看电视</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">等维持坐著不动的姿势」这表示你的男人正在休息。根据统计，女人一天平均可以说（约）两万到三万个字。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">（为什么？我等一下会告诉你）当女人今天在工作场所（学校</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">都可以）只说了几千字的时候，她会想把「剩下没用掉的两万字用完」；而这个</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">时候如果碰上她的男人回到家，悲剧就发生了。（以下不是假想状况）</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
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<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">A</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">：『嗨！亲爱的，你回来啦。怎么样？你今天过得还好吗？』</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">B</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">：『还好。』（真正的意思：我好累。我要去找个岩石坐在上面发呆）</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">A</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">：『你的提案有被接受了吗？同事好吗？上司没有为难你吧？』</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">B</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">：『</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">嗯。』（他不能理解为什么她会一次问三个问题，只好含糊其词）</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 这时</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">B</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">心想要快点把话题结束，但是又不能显得冷漠；於是他反问：『公司还</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">ok</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">，你呢？』</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">A</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">（逮到机会终於可以说了）：『我跟你说喔今天啊我本来要趁午休的时候</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">和</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">D</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">一起去百货公司买那一件套装就是上次我们去逛街的时候看到那一件啊</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">谁知道我的信用卡忘在梳妆台气死我了後来我们决定去看鞋子本来要跟同事借钱的可是好贵喔你知道那双鞋跟我有多搭吗你一定不相信</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">』</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">B</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">（脑中有什么东西断裂的声音）：『我就跟你说信用卡不要乱丢，你就不听！』</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">A</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">（一脸错愕）：『可是</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">人家真的不是故意的啊。你干么那么凶？』</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">B</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">：『我哪有很凶！』</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">A</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">：『你上次也是这么凶！你每次都不听我说话！』</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">B</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">：『我哪有「每次」都这么凶？』</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">接下来我想大家都知道会发生什么事。根据</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">X</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">光片显示，女人的大脑中负责处理语言的部位大概是男人的六倍。因此不要问女人为什么多话，她们就是这样。（男人只有在喝了酒之後多话：那是因为大脑乱成一团）而男人在狩猎时除非万不得已，不然男人是不会交谈的（理由前面有说）</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 男人只有在需要的时候说话。也就是说－男人说话是为了「解决问题」。而女人说话只是为了说话。而这两种迥然不同的思考逻辑遇上时，就发生很多歧异了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">A</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">、</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">B</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">的对话里，我们可以发现几个特点：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">1. A</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">（只是很单纯的）想分享她一天的感觉给</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">B</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">，但是</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">B</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">听起来</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">是在「问他的意见」甚至是叫他解决问题、给他压力。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">2 </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">当</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">B</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">告诉她信用卡不要乱丢的时候，其实</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">B</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">暗自窃喜：嘿！解决一个问题了。」</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">A</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">则认为：「我没有问你的意见啊！我只是想告诉你我的感觉。」</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">3. </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">男性注重「字面上的意思」，女性则是强调「感觉」。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">大部分时候，女性会夸大其词来表达她的感受；譬如：『我告诉过你几百万次了！』</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">『我打死也不会嫁给他。』（除非他很有钱又快要挂了）</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">『你根本没有爱过我！』（眼药水）</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 找个男生来划线吧，我敢打赌他一定在这些字底下划线：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 「几百万」、</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">「打死」、「根本没有」－－他只听到你（善意但是夸张）的用词，</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">於是他会极力辩解他没有「每次」都不听你说话。於是</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">… </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">唉，争辩的焦点不同，火星语和金星语能沟通才有鬼。当然不是叫你放弃喔。而是你要知道怎么和男人沟通。重点是：让他知道「怎么做」给他「明确的」时间、地点。一次只讲一件事，慢慢来。男人的大脑没办法做复数事件的思考。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;"> (</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">示范句）</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">A</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">：『我有话要跟你说。可是我要让你知道，你不用开口－我只是想跟你分享我的感觉，可以吗？』（撒娇）</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">B</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">：（很高兴得到命令和确切的方向）『喔，好啊。』</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 如果事情有这么顺利就好了。当然，这需要两边的协调和沟通罗。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 为什么女人压力一大就会拼命吃东西或是逛街购物？因为在演化过程中</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">焦虑的原因大部分来自於食物的匮乏。因此当食物来源可能不足时，女性的本能会催促她们获取足够的热量、采集足以过冬或饥荒的食物。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">（不过这不代表你从今天开始可以理直气壮地狂吃巧克力或</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">shopping</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">。）</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 而女性对看不懂地图或没有方向感的原因是：她们不像男人必须追踪「好几天路程」的猎物；她们只需要记得「从家里到附近的森林采集的路线」－－找路是男人的专长啊。（所以，如果你也没有方向感，这不是你的错）告诉女人怎么走一定要告诉她路标。『你车开到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">7-11</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">之後左转，然後直走看到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">NOVA</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">右转</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">』 如果你告诉她『你走到第五号交流道後下去，然後走个五分钟转中正路</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">』你大概从此之後就看不到她了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 为什么男人不听别人的意见？因为男人被视为「问题的解决者」。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">若是他不能解决问题，那就表示他的能力不足；那会伤害他的自尊。所以如果你说：『亲爱的，我们还是去问路吧。』这一句话到他脑子里会翻译成『你这没用的家伙，连路都找不到。』那要怎么办呢？让他去试。他最後会浪子回头的，要有耐性。男人压力大或有烦恼的时候，他会选择爬到石头上发呆或是独处。而女人刚好相反－－她会找一缸子好友吐苦水、一起数落男人的不是</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">所以，如果他不说话，那表示他在想事情。不是他对你冷淡喔。（至少大部分情况不是。看！你们就是想太多）</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 或者他会去打球或邉印Ｄ轨蚴褂盟</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">奶熨</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">x</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">（准确度、空间推理）对他来说有安心的效果。很多时候男人心烦意乱的时候跑去打球就是这个原因。工业革命後，改变了人类的生活型态。喔，是的。男人引以为傲的狩猎本能在现代社会根本派不上用场。所以你知道为什么这两百年来各式各样的球赛、赛车</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">…</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">等邉影</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">l</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">展蓬勃的原因：男人必须找个出口。（别怪他这么热衷球赛，那是他的本能。没办法）</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 天生猎人，拒绝沟通、独断自信的男人与养育儿女，喜欢聊天、交朋友的女人在这个新世纪中要如何自处呢？我所描述的都是男女的「特质」，没有好坏之分。我个人认为这是个「各司其职」的世界－－你喜欢洋娃娃，无妨。你喜欢看摔角，那是你的自由。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
<br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> 重要的是我们要知道：造成男女差异的原因并非我们能控制的，而是演化的产物。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">我们都不完美，因此需要沟通与协调。也因为这样，这个世界才会这么有趣。</span></p>
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